i got teary-eyed reading this notes from my friend. uwaaaaa..
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yerp, the closer it gets the dead you are. scary but true, tp mmg kene tabahkn hati & kuatkn semangat! you are lucky to hv your husband with you and i'm sure he's doing a good job at making sure your sanity is in check...
I tau we are doing different fields, so mmg xadil if i said i know how u feel, but i'm here to just share you my experience...
when you felt like you're hitting the wall, i.e. gantung diri, suffocating in all those journals, results,analysing data, labwork...) try step back, and do something else skejap just to let your mind off with the project (ntahla, maybe like tgk tv ke, shopping ke, masak ke, movies ke...) make yourself feel better, then sit down and look at what you dh buat, make a list and things you still hv to do...as for me, if i do my work dlm keadaan bengang, penat, pening, geram...mmg xkemananye my work, so i try to make myself happy/better first, then sambung balik....sort of like taking short breaks for yourself.
tp mmg the closer it gets to the finish line, you really just have to hang in there, and what's left in you is your perseverence, how much you need this, as much as you hate this whole process, you have no choice but to get through with this, yes, that's the ugly truth, but once you dh submit, once all of this is over, you can look back and be proud of yourself for you had made it through.
try tell yourself, you made it this far, and you are like so close to finishing all of this, so don't give up! just don't give up! mmg when i did mine, 3 months to go, still got labwork to do, then a month to go, and i felt like i was like a walking zombie! everytime rase nk mcm baik mati je, tp i pk if i stop now, then all of this will be just a waste of time shj & to prove to my supervisor then she's wrong about my capabilities (yerp, i did hd a few dramas with my supervisor), that kept me going...it wasn't a wonderful ride, but i just hv to keep on going.
sorry la mbebel la pulak, i know maybe you've heard hundreds of the same stories from other ppl, tp happy to know that you are so close to the finishing line...plus, mase nk hantar to pulak, tetibe i rase mcm berkobar2 lak semangat anak melayu...hehe. poyos je kn? =) so, chin up, gurl! you can do this!
take care,
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Jan 14, 2010
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i got teary-eyed reading this notes from my friend. uwaaaaa..
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yerp, the closer it gets the dead you are. scary but true, tp mmg kene tabahkn hati & kuatkn semangat! you are lucky to hv your husband with you and i'm sure he's doing a good job at making sure your sanity is in check...
I tau we are doing different fields, so mmg xadil if i said i know how u feel, but i'm here to just share you my experience...
when you felt like you're hitting the wall, i.e. gantung diri, suffocating in all those journals, results,analysing data, labwork...) try step back, and do something else skejap just to let your mind off with the project (ntahla, maybe like tgk tv ke, shopping ke, masak ke, movies ke...) make yourself feel better, then sit down and look at what you dh buat, make a list and things you still hv to do...as for me, if i do my work dlm keadaan bengang, penat, pening, geram...mmg xkemananye my work, so i try to make myself happy/better first, then sambung balik....sort of like taking short breaks for yourself.
tp mmg the closer it gets to the finish line, you really just have to hang in there, and what's left in you is your perseverence, how much you need this, as much as you hate this whole process, you have no choice but to get through with this, yes, that's the ugly truth, but once you dh submit, once all of this is over, you can look back and be proud of yourself for you had made it through.
try tell yourself, you made it this far, and you are like so close to finishing all of this, so don't give up! just don't give up! mmg when i did mine, 3 months to go, still got labwork to do, then a month to go, and i felt like i was like a walking zombie! everytime rase nk mcm baik mati je, tp i pk if i stop now, then all of this will be just a waste of time shj & to prove to my supervisor then she's wrong about my capabilities (yerp, i did hd a few dramas with my supervisor), that kept me going...it wasn't a wonderful ride, but i just hv to keep on going.
sorry la mbebel la pulak, i know maybe you've heard hundreds of the same stories from other ppl, tp happy to know that you are so close to the finishing line...plus, mase nk hantar to pulak, tetibe i rase mcm berkobar2 lak semangat anak melayu...hehe. poyos je kn? =) so, chin up, gurl! you can do this!
take care,
xxxxxxxx
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yerp, the closer it gets the dead you are. scary but true, tp mmg kene tabahkn hati & kuatkn semangat! you are lucky to hv your husband with you and i'm sure he's doing a good job at making sure your sanity is in check...
I tau we are doing different fields, so mmg xadil if i said i know how u feel, but i'm here to just share you my experience...
when you felt like you're hitting the wall, i.e. gantung diri, suffocating in all those journals, results,analysing data, labwork...) try step back, and do something else skejap just to let your mind off with the project (ntahla, maybe like tgk tv ke, shopping ke, masak ke, movies ke...) make yourself feel better, then sit down and look at what you dh buat, make a list and things you still hv to do...as for me, if i do my work dlm keadaan bengang, penat, pening, geram...mmg xkemananye my work, so i try to make myself happy/better first, then sambung balik....sort of like taking short breaks for yourself.
tp mmg the closer it gets to the finish line, you really just have to hang in there, and what's left in you is your perseverence, how much you need this, as much as you hate this whole process, you have no choice but to get through with this, yes, that's the ugly truth, but once you dh submit, once all of this is over, you can look back and be proud of yourself for you had made it through.
try tell yourself, you made it this far, and you are like so close to finishing all of this, so don't give up! just don't give up! mmg when i did mine, 3 months to go, still got labwork to do, then a month to go, and i felt like i was like a walking zombie! everytime rase nk mcm baik mati je, tp i pk if i stop now, then all of this will be just a waste of time shj & to prove to my supervisor then she's wrong about my capabilities (yerp, i did hd a few dramas with my supervisor), that kept me going...it wasn't a wonderful ride, but i just hv to keep on going.
sorry la mbebel la pulak, i know maybe you've heard hundreds of the same stories from other ppl, tp happy to know that you are so close to the finishing line...plus, mase nk hantar to pulak, tetibe i rase mcm berkobar2 lak semangat anak melayu...hehe. poyos je kn? =) so, chin up, gurl! you can do this!
take care,
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so touching huhu
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